Quora Answers: Narcissism
Is It Possible To Have A Good Friendship With My Ex-Narcissist?
We Were Friends Before We Became Intimate. I Want Him In My Life.
I was friends with my ex-narcissist before we were intimate too.
And like you, I thought I still wanted him in my life after our marriage ended.
After all, we had a son together.
Back then, I thought he was a great guy, and honestly believed that he was my friend.
I loved laughing with him and having someone to talk to who understood me.
It was also nice to hang out with a guy who wasn't always trying to get in my pants.
Fast forward a few months and we fell in love.
We moved in together and it was wonderful for a while.
Things quickly changed, though, as what I now know as the devaluation phase began.
I also know now that he had never been my friend.
He only played that role because he quickly figured out what he needed to do in order to gain my trust.
It wasn't possible to keep my ex-narcissist in my life because he never stopped doing what narcissists do.
He continued to create drama and chaos for me and our child, and sabotaged every aspect of my life that he possibly could.
The main reason it's not possible to let a narcissist remain in your life is because they will always try to drag you back into the mind-fuckery and chaos that they thrive on.
Fun for them.
Miserable for you.
Originally Answered On Quora By Serena Prince.
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